Ladies if you are married, you need to keep your husband happy, just like you kept him happy while you were dating and working to get that carat. You maintained your dime piece status. Hair, nails, waxing, workouts, slamming outfits, and hot home cooked meals. You even laughed at his silly jokes, listen to how his day was, called to just say hello, watched sports without interrupting him and like Jill said you “felt like cayenne pepper, red, hot, spicy”. Now that he has put a “ring on it”, you’re treating him like y’all first cousins. What happened? You go to bed with rollers in your hair and flannel pajamas on, no more Vicki secrets for him. No workouts, feet feeling like Brillo pads.
Marriage means you get freakier. If your man comes home from a hard days work, trust, he is tired, he don’t want to hear your yapping and complaining when he walks in the door. If he wants some loving while you cooking, put that meal on simmer and get to getting. Make him a priority. I know you are saying, I work too, I have to take care of the kids, cook, clean, blah, blah, blah. You were doing that when you were dating; and you can get him to help with the kids and house. After you ride him like a wild buck, tell him to help the kids with the homework while you finish dinner. Oh, he is all over it.
Like Betty Wright said, “The clean up woman will wipe his blues away, she’ll give him penny lovin’ 24 hours a day.” Don’t let this happen to you. Don’t let the clean up woman in your house. Get on your game and keep your man satisfied in and out of the bedroom.
I’m divorced, but trust, it wasn’t because the loving was bad! Ask him….
Peace & Love
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