Trust

I heard someone say, “I don’t care what you do, just be honest about it.” I wish everyone could be honest, truthful, sincere, candid, and straightforward. But we afraid to do that, it so much easier to lie, tell half-truths.

I once loved a man who cheated on me. He was the first man I decided to love without conditions. The only person I love unconditionally is my child. It’s difficult for adults to do, it’s hard for folks to be intimate, to ask the brave questions and hear the bold answers.

At the end of our relationship, he said he was sorry and he was wrong. I agreed. He should have come to me and said, I like someone else. I want to spend time with this person. Yet, I still love you and don’t want to loose you. I might have agreed to this. We are all capable of loving more than one person at the same time. However, he never gave me the chance to decide my life, my future.

If we were truly intimate with one another, there would be less breakups, less broken homes, less conflict at work. If we just kept it open and real. Like Jessep said in A Few Good Men: “You can't handle the truth! Son, we live in a world that has walls.” Breaking down walls and opening up is theraputic, it’s a true high, it’s the bomb. Like Alicia Keys sangs in “Unthinkable”; I’m gonna sit right here and tell you all that comes to me.” Try it, your relationships will be golden.

Peace & Love